Reading Time: 4 minutes

Stroking Naked Men

Reading Time: 4 minutes I started stroking naked men for money in 2007. It feels light years ago. Not so much in linear distance, but more in the sense of understanding from this nine years later perspective, what it was I was doing. Back then it was simply a call to heart that sang out clear and true, even […]

Reading Time: 6 minutes

Therapy as Soul’s Work – a Traveller’s Tale

Reading Time: 6 minutes Therapists, in my view, are born not made, preferably within the toxic shambles of ancestral cock-ups, gloom and tragedy, glued together by betrayals and abandonments under a carapace of despair. For as the poet WH Auden put it: ’The so-called traumatic experience is not an accident, but the opportunity for which the child has been […]